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In fact, there are many dating sites specifically tailored for white men looking to date Asian women.There is even a Tumblr blog that compiles messages from “creepy white guys with Asian fetishes.” Yellow fever was also depicted in Debbie Lum’s documentary, Seeking Asian Female, which takes a close look at relationships between white men and Asian women. While White-Male-Asian-Female couples have been common place for years, Asian-Male-White-Female couples are still rare.As the model minority, Asian men are generally associated with positive traits like faithfulness, family-orientation, and financially stability.Denigrating jokes (or just altogether racist rants) about the size of Asian guys’ dicks are so common they’re not even recognized as racist rhetoric. Never mind that the majority of studies have been based on shaky research methods (data that’s been self-reported or, in some cases, “gathered from websites”).

But in many of his photos, he is accompanied by Asian women.“Yes, he has yellow fever,” my friend confirms.

Nothing pisses me off more than when someone says, “I’m just not attracted to Asian men.” I’ve heard these words come out of seemingly bright and well-intentioned women’s mouths — women of all ethnicities, including Asian — and in the Bay Area, where over one-third of the population is Asian, no less.

When I point out that it’s discriminatory — no, to exclude an entire race from your dating preferences, they shrug as if it’s something that just can’t be helped. Especially because I’m an Asian woman who happens to be dating a white guy.

We met while living abroad in Beijing, China, where yellow fever among expats runs rampant and subsequent suspicion from the local population stokes racial tensions. When I walked with him hand in hand, I saw smug expressions from white dudes, dismissive sneers from Chinese men and judgmental looks from white and Chinese women alike.

San Franciscans tend to be more informed when it comes to matters of race, yet even now I witness moments of appalling ignorance. Why are we so quick to believe that Asian men have small penises, I wonder?

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